Hello lovelies I was listening to the radio today and the subject was about how you find a property you’re just moving in to. How clean this property was and things that people found. I wasn’t paying much attention to all of the stories but enough to make me think of my own experience of this..
The last time I moved into a flat I’d leased for 6 months. I wanted to be near the buses to commute to work and be near my parents. My mum had a major stroke she wasn’t expected to survive so she needed extra support.. Luckily she proved them wrong..
Two of my grown daughters came along to help me move in and clean up. Well let me just say this for those of you new to the page.
I’m a mix of Romani and Welsh Romani what society refer to as a Gypsy. Prt of our culture and upbringing is to keep a clean home.
So I’ve always prided myself for keeping for the most part a clean and tidy home. This flat was in abit of a state a rotten mattress had been dumped in the room.
There was a stained carpet ripped that was pulled up and dumped it seemed in the living room, as the same coloured was found in the bedroom.
The landlord apologised and said he’d collect that and the mattress so I dragged it down with one of the girls while the other was in the kitchen..
Until I heard a shout if eerrgh eeeewwww you dirty dirty minger.. I called out hesitantly if all was OK as she was in the kitchen cleaning the kitchen cupboard with a bleach mixture and antibacterial spray with plenty of clothes scourers.
She just said you won’t believe this Mum and repeated how disgusted she was..
There was my lovely daughter up to her arms in hot water and cleaning sprays and said look on top of the cupboard.. Written in not very large writing “Kaz was ere” well I suddenly found out what coloured hair Kaz had.
Also why my daughter was so disgusted there on top neatly displayed were curly red public hair. Immediately plucking a kitchen towel from my pocket disposed of it like you normally do with something nasty.
Suffice to say I couldn’t eat there although I never found any further nasty surprises like that. I certainly knew the irony because some of the false narratives about Romani Gypsies is that we’re dirty and unclean aswell as being cruel to animals.
Cleaning the home daily (that means washing sweeping scrubbing hoovering and steaming the floors and kitchen worktops the bathroom.
Damp dusting and polishing all other surfaces daily.. We wash our crockery clothes differently to non Romani people. We only allow certain people to drink/eat from certain crockery and not crockery we would use for ourselves. Our animals are cherished and we ensure that our homes are free from germs and dirt. This is part of our culture and upbringing we were raised to know how to take good care of yourself your home husband and your family. That means cleaning up is as natural as breathing to a Romani Gypsy. So take it from me it is not true.
As my dear mum used to say there’s good and bad is everyone no matter who and what you are. But it ws always stressed to us to keep a clean home and keep to the customs. Which I’m happy to as its not much different from cleaning a nursery setting for young children.
You have to ensure that everything is not just clean and tidy with floors hoovered and mopped. It’s making sure every toy is washed sanitised then left to dry. To ensure there’s no dangerous germs lurking as child tend to explore with their little eager mouths and hands. Just as I do when I clean my home just like my mum and her siblings did aswell.
I’m vegan and I stopped eating meat in my 20s because I like animals and didn’t want anyone to kill them on my behalf. Although I naively thought at the time that dairy was OK, as no animal was being harmed.. Before I moved out of this flat to move in with Mr Vegan, the landlord came and done his yearly check. You know to make sure I hadn’t knocked any walls down etc but I said I was moving out and I won’t be renewing the lease.
We arranged to meet at the flat to hand over the key and he would return my deposit. So as he knew about “pubegate” I made sure those cupboards in the kitchen aswell as everywhere else were cleaner than I found them.
I had this mantra when cleaning every room including the stairs and hall that it was going to look better than I found it. I’d painted the living room and painted the lovely wooden high fireplace mantel and shelves. As my flat was on the first floor of a converted house and my back was getting worse.
So these stairs weren’t help me at all. He was not only happy to see it was clean and tidy he said it looked better than before I moved in and gave me a month’s rent free on top of the deposit..
Lastly, I think the pandemic and covid is teaching people to avoid getting covid is to be cleaner in general.. β₯οΈπͺπ§
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